I got messages both from Garrus and Kaidan. I went to see Kaidan first because I knew Garrus’s message was a date invitation.
Poor Kaidan confessed his feelings for Shepard and I had no choice but say “no”. I expected Shepard to tell Kaidan she was interested in another man (or tell truthfully about her and Garrus) but no. No! Instead she explained how “times are difficult” and thus their relationship wouldn’t work.
Right after that she ran literally into Garrus’s arms
and they ravished each others with French kisses on the top of the Presidium.
Shepard, you’re so fair game.